Should gay marriage be legal in the great state of Texas? The Majority of the voting block in Texas would probably agree that marriage is designated between a man and a woman, and would vehemently oppose the legislation which attempts to make this legal. However, there are mounting sums of people, both gay and straight, jumping on the band wagon to legalize it. Regardless of the opinion, the country is changing and most believe same sex marriage in the state of Texas is inevitable.
Since gay marriage was officially banned in Texas in 1997, many have wondered when their day at equal rights would come. Things continued to get worse as in 2003, even civil unions were banned. One could argue that its par for the course in Texas for old white republicans to be against anything that challenges the status quo. Unfortunately for those old white men, the year is 2014, and the tides are turning. Since May 2004, when Massachusetts became the first state in the United States to allow gay marriage, slowly the other states have been following suit.
Lawsuit after appealed lawsuit, state after state, it has become clear that having any form of ban on gay marriage is unconstitutional. All these states that have become the stronghold for those that hope to retain a way of life more indicative of the old times, only now serve as a model to future generations of the hardheaded ignorant people, with beliefs that belong in the past. Most would agree that its only a matter of time until same sex marriage becomes the status quo, and that form of archaic discrimination is a thing of the past.
In the long run, those individuals in the Texas political chain that are the ones holding onto the ban of gay marriage, would be better off realizing that that belief system is futile. They may feel that doing so appeases their constituents, when what they are really doing is alienating an entire, typically affluent, voting block. When considering gay marriage, not taking into account politics, one could argue, “If you have such a problem with gay marriage, then don’t marry someone of the same sex!” In other words, being that gay marriage is a gay issue, and doesn't directly affect straight people, why should it matter to them that two people in love want the same right to enter holy matrimony just as Britney Spears had the right to her 55 hour marriage?
A same sex couple that is expecting a child by the end of March, now wishes for Texas to expedite the legal process so that they, by the birth of their child, will have the same legal ties to their child as any other expecting couple. Who in their right mind could object to something so plain and simple as basic human rights? Simply put; Those that have something to gain by opposing.
The plight of the gay community may not have been as extreme as that of the African Americans of the 1960’s, but they do share their similarities. They are both fighting for what they believe is right. Similarly, different parts of the country have come around to the idea of equal rights at different times as well. Texas will soon be forced to follow suit as the last 20 states make the switch to acknowledge gay marriage and gay rights. Hopefully for the residents of Texas, especially those that look back at this moment in Texas history, we aren't the last state to give equal rights to all its residents.